seriousness for a moment
Jul. 8th, 2008 10:38 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
amredthelectorOkay, so... this topic emerged on BRPS, and I figured that if I'm gonna talk about it to total strangers, I might as well put it up here. It'll probably be shuffled to my profile at some point for reference.
I am an asexual.
I am genderqueer.
That means that I can have sex, I can enjoy sex, but I just don't care about sex. I feel kinda awkward talking about the nitty-gritty of sex. But I have not problem shouting 'PENIS!' if there is an awkward silence.
It also means that I have issues with my gender. I basically identify myself as have both and neither gender at once. Those who have seen my online avatars can tell this. There's SI, the feminine, outward appearance, and Amred, the masculine, inward appearance. They are both me. They are just different parts of me. Like yin and yang, the symbol I've identified with for most of my life.
But to be clear; I'm not gay, I'm not a transsexual, and I'm not confused. I know who I am, and I am comfortable with it. I am proud of myself. I am aware of myself. If you really do get confused about my real gender, feel free to ask what it is (this happens a lot) just understand that I don't really mind have male or female pronouns attached to my name, and I'm perfectly cool with being called an 'it'.
Sorry to dump this teal deer on you all, but, hey. It needed to be said. Peace, and I'll be back later with some fun stuff.
I am an asexual.
I am genderqueer.
That means that I can have sex, I can enjoy sex, but I just don't care about sex. I feel kinda awkward talking about the nitty-gritty of sex. But I have not problem shouting 'PENIS!' if there is an awkward silence.
It also means that I have issues with my gender. I basically identify myself as have both and neither gender at once. Those who have seen my online avatars can tell this. There's SI, the feminine, outward appearance, and Amred, the masculine, inward appearance. They are both me. They are just different parts of me. Like yin and yang, the symbol I've identified with for most of my life.
But to be clear; I'm not gay, I'm not a transsexual, and I'm not confused. I know who I am, and I am comfortable with it. I am proud of myself. I am aware of myself. If you really do get confused about my real gender, feel free to ask what it is (this happens a lot) just understand that I don't really mind have male or female pronouns attached to my name, and I'm perfectly cool with being called an 'it'.
Sorry to dump this teal deer on you all, but, hey. It needed to be said. Peace, and I'll be back later with some fun stuff.
